Feeling unsure about how you want to proceed with your unplanned pregnancy is normal. Feeling pressure from others about what you should do is not okay and not part of a normal, healthy relationship. If your partner keeps pushing you toward abortion and you’re not certain that’s what you want, that can cause stress that clouds your thoughts.
LaVie Pregnancy Care Center offers a calm, confidential place where you can sort through your situation without judgment or outside influence. When you understand the signs of pressure and your next steps, you can make a decision with confidence.
What Pressure From a Partner Looks Like
Pressure doesn’t always appear in obvious ways. Sometimes it shows up quietly, making you doubt yourself or react before you feel ready.
Your partner may dismiss or minimize your feelings.
When you share concerns, and they respond with frustration, repeat that abortion is the only option, or refuse to talk about anything else, they’re pushing their preference over your perspective.
It’s okay to push back and ask for the support you need. Let your partner know you need to feel heard and need space to express your feelings and desires.
They may rush you to decide.
Statements like “You need to do this now,” or “Don’t think about it,” can create a sense of urgency that doesn’t stem from medical facts but potentially a desire to deal with the pregnancy and move on.
You deserve clear information about things like gestational age (since the abortion pill is only FDA-approved through the first 10 weeks of pregnancy), possible risks, and confirmation that the pregnancy is developing in the uterus before deciding on a medical or surgical abortion. You can get this information through an ultrasound.
Your partner may use threats or ultimatums as a means of control.
If they warn that they’ll pull back financial, emotional, or relational support unless you choose abortion, they’re using coercion. You deserve room to think and speak freely, not to make a decision based on fear.
Why You Need Medical Clarity
Before you decide anything—abortion included—you need to know what’s happening in your body.
A limited obstetric ultrasound shows whether the pregnancy is viable, how far along you are, and whether you may face health concerns such as a possible ectopic pregnancy. Knowing your exact gestational age also matters.
When you see the medical facts clearly, you can separate your own thoughts from someone else’s pressure.
You Deserve Support, Not Pressure
Your partner may act out of fear or stress, but their reaction doesn’t determine your decision. You have the right to slow down, ask questions, and get reliable information.
LaVie offers no-cost pregnancy testing, ultrasounds, and confidential options consultations. Our team listens, shares information clearly, and never pressures you toward any outcome.
Schedule a Confidential Appointment
If you feel pushed, unsure, or overwhelmed, take one step that brings clarity. Schedule a free appointment with LaVie to talk through your options in a private, supportive setting.